really good one!! sweet remembrance of those days........
Memories....
Gone are the days........but not the memories
Gone are the days When the school reopened in June,
And we settled in our new desks and benches.
Gone are the days When we queued up in book depot,
And got our new books and notes.
Gone are the days When we wanted two Sundays and no Mondays, yet
Managed to line up daily for the morning prayers.
Gone are the days When we chased one another in the corridors in Intervals,And returned to the classrooms drenched in sweat.
Gone are the days When we had lunch in classrooms, corridors,Playgrounds, under the trees and even in cycle sheds.
Gone are the days When a single P.T. period in the week's Time Table, Was awaited more eagerly than the monsoons.
Gone are the days Of fights but no conspiracies,Of Competitions but seldom jealousy.
Gone are the days When we used to watch Live Cricket telecast,In the opposite house in Intervals and Lunch breaks.
Gone are the days When few rushed at 5:30 to
"Conquer" window seats in our School bus.
Gone are the days Of Sports Day, and the annual School Day,
And the one-month long preparations for them.
Gone are the days Of the stressful Quarterly,
Half Yearly and Annual Exams,
And the most enjoyed holidays after them.
Gone are the days We learnt, we enjoyed, we played, we
won, we lost, We laughed, we cried, we fought, we thought.
Gone are the days
With so much fun in them, so many friends,
So much experience, all this and more.
Gone are the days
But not the memories, which will be
Lingering in our hearts for ever and ever and
Ever and ever and Ever.
I hope you went back to your Golden Olden days..........
For a while..........as I DID!!
Didn't U ????
Tuesday, December 1, 2009
WHY WOMEN ARE SO SPECIAL . . .
WHY WOMEN ARE SO SPECIAL . . .
Mum and Dad were watching TV when Mum said, "I'm tired, and it's
getting late. I think I'll go to bed."
She went to the kitchen to make sandwiches for the next day's
lunches. Rinsed out the popcorn bowls, took meat out of the
freezer for supper the following evening, checked the cereal box
levels, filled the sugar container, put spoons and bowls on the
table and started the coffee pot for brewing the next morning.
She then put some wet clothes in the dryer, put a load of clothes
into the washer, ironed a shirt and secured a loose button. She
picked up the game pieces left on the table, put the phone back on
the charger and put the telephone book into the drawer. She
watered the plants, emptied a wastebasket and hung up a towel to
dry. She yawned and stretched and headed for the bedroom.
She stopped by the desk and wrote a note to the teacher, counted
out some cash for the excursion and pulled a text book out from
hiding under the chair. She signed a birthday card for a friend,
addressed and stamped the envelope and wrote a quick note for the
grocery store. She put both near her bag.
Mum then washed her face with 3 in 1 cleanser, put on her Night
Solution & age fighting moisturizer, brushed and flossed her teeth
and filed her nails.
Dad called out, "I thought you were going to bed."
"I'm on my way," she said. She put some water into the dog's dish
and put the cat outside, then made sure the doors were locked and
the patio light was on. She looked in on each of the kids and
turned out their bedside lamps and radios, hung up a shirt, threw
some dirty socks into the hamper, and had a brief conversation
with the one up still doing homework.
In her own room, she set the alarm; laid out clothing for the next
day, straightened up the shoe rack. She added three things to her
6 most important things to do list. She said her prayers, and
visualized the accomplishment of her goals.
About that time, Dad turned off the TV
and announced to no one in particular. "I'm going to bed." And he
did...without another thought.
Anything extraordinary here? Wonder why women live longer...?
'CAUSE THEY ARE MADE FOR THE LONG HAUL.......
(and they can't die sooner, they still have things to do!!!!)
God's very own creation! :)
really excellent one send by someone to me ............................
getting late. I think I'll go to bed."
She went to the kitchen to make sandwiches for the next day's
lunches. Rinsed out the popcorn bowls, took meat out of the
freezer for supper the following evening, checked the cereal box
levels, filled the sugar container, put spoons and bowls on the
table and started the coffee pot for brewing the next morning.
She then put some wet clothes in the dryer, put a load of clothes
into the washer, ironed a shirt and secured a loose button. She
picked up the game pieces left on the table, put the phone back on
the charger and put the telephone book into the drawer. She
watered the plants, emptied a wastebasket and hung up a towel to
dry. She yawned and stretched and headed for the bedroom.
She stopped by the desk and wrote a note to the teacher, counted
out some cash for the excursion and pulled a text book out from
hiding under the chair. She signed a birthday card for a friend,
addressed and stamped the envelope and wrote a quick note for the
grocery store. She put both near her bag.
Mum then washed her face with 3 in 1 cleanser, put on her Night
Solution & age fighting moisturizer, brushed and flossed her teeth
and filed her nails.
Dad called out, "I thought you were going to bed."
"I'm on my way," she said. She put some water into the dog's dish
and put the cat outside, then made sure the doors were locked and
the patio light was on. She looked in on each of the kids and
turned out their bedside lamps and radios, hung up a shirt, threw
some dirty socks into the hamper, and had a brief conversation
with the one up still doing homework.
In her own room, she set the alarm; laid out clothing for the next
day, straightened up the shoe rack. She added three things to her
6 most important things to do list. She said her prayers, and
visualized the accomplishment of her goals.
About that time, Dad turned off the TV
and announced to no one in particular. "I'm going to bed." And he
did...without another thought.
Anything extraordinary here? Wonder why women live longer...?
'CAUSE THEY ARE MADE FOR THE LONG HAUL.......
(and they can't die sooner, they still have things to do!!!!)
God's very own creation! :)
really excellent one send by someone to me ............................
Rising VS Falling in LOVE
One of the Best Question and answer I came through while surfing... Take Time to read but read with concentration...............................................
To fall in love is so easy. Why is it so difficult to fall out of love? So many discussions, tears, fights, fears.... I don’t want to hurt the person I’ve been with, because it’s not that there is no feeling. I’m so confused. Can you say something?
Falling is always easy. You can fall in any ditch. Getting out is difficult. But you will have to get out. Once the love disappears the ditch becomes hell. Then there is quarreling, argument, nagging, and every kind of nastiness from both sides. Nobody wants to hurt; but because he is hurting, she is hurting, unknowingly they go on dumping their hurt feelings on the other.
In the first place, when you start falling in love, when you are still not in the ditch, that is the time to ask me, because I have a totally different kind of love affair which is called rising in love. Then there is no problem. Rising in love is beautiful, and getting out of it is very easy, because that will be falling down. Falling down is easy, keep it for the next step; for the first step, always use rising. The easier step you have done, now you have to do the difficult one.
And it will happen -- all these tears and conflicts, but nothing can bring the love back.
A simple thing has to be understood: love -- the love that you are talking about -- is not in your hands. You have fallen into it. It was not in your power not to fall, so when it comes, it takes you with it. But it is like a breeze, it comes and goes. And it is good that it comes and goes, because if it stays it becomes stale.
A little understanding is needed on both sides, that the love is no longer there. There is no need to hate each other, because nobody has destroyed it -- nobody has created it. It had come like a breeze, you enjoyed those moments; be thankful to each other and help each other to come out of the ditch. In a ditch, that is the only way. The man, to be really manly, should give his shoulders for the woman to rise up and get out of the ditch. And the man can find his own gymnastics, how to do it.
Rising in love means a learning, a changing, a maturity. Rising in love ultimately helps you to become grown-up. And two grown-up persons don’t quarrel; they try to understand, they try to solve any problem.
Anybody who rises in love never falls from it, because rising is your effort, and the love that is grown through your effort is within your hands. But falling in love is not your effort.
When you fall in love, no questions arise. You are clean, the other person is clean. But when you want to separate, the days, the nights, the years that you have lived together, loved together, experienced something which is one of the most beautiful gifts of nature -- you go on becoming entangled.
You go on giving promises to each other... and it is not that you are lying or deceiving; in those beautiful moments those promises seem to be absolutely coming from your heart. But when those moments are gone -- and they will be gone, because it has been a fall, and nobody can remain in a fallen state for eternity. Someday he has to rise again. And the moment you start separating, all those entanglements, your promises, the other’s promises, create the complexity.
Rising in love is something spiritual.
Falling in love is something biological.
Biology is blind, that’s why love is called blind. But the love I am talking about is the only insight that is easily available to everyone. Just a little effort....
Love should come out of your silence, awareness, meditativeness. It is soft, it is unbinding -- because how can love create fetters for the one who is loved? It is giving freedom to each other, more and more. As the love grows deeper, freedom becomes bigger. As the love grows deeper, you start accepting the person as he is. You stop trying to change the person.
It is one of the miseries of the world that lovers are continuously trying to change the other person. They don’t know that if the person really changes, their love will disappear, because they had not fallen in love with this changed person in the first place. They had fallen in love with a person who was not touched by their ideas -- "Change this and that."
Rising in love, you become aware that the other has his own territorial imperative, and you are not to encroach upon it.
If love becomes freedom, then there is no need to separate. The idea of separation arises because you go on seeing that you are becoming more and more a slave, and nobody likes slavery.
"You have to understand that advice is the only thing everybody gives free of charge and nobody takes." Why bother? Advice given by a person whom you have not asked cannot be very wise. The wise man never imposes his idea on anyone.
If somebody asks him, he simply gives his insight.
It is not a commandment, that they have to do it; there is no "should" in it.
I can say only one thing: you have given each other beautiful moments -- be grateful, be thankful. The parting should not be ugly when the meeting was so beautiful.
You owe it to existence that the parting should be made beautiful. Forget all your promises -- they were right when they were given, but the time has changed, you have changed. You both are standing at a crossroads, ready to move in different directions; perhaps you may never meet again. Make it as graceful as possible. And once you understand that it has to happen, gracefully or ungracefully, then it is better to make it graceful.
At least, your lover will live in your memory, you will live in the memory of the lover. In a certain way, those moments together will always enrich you. But part gracefully.
And it is not difficult when you have understood love -- which is a very difficult phenomenon. You fell without a second thought; you can understand that very easily love has disappeared. Accept the truth of it, and don’t blame each other, because nobody is responsible.
Help each other gracefully; in deep friendship, part. Lovers when they separate become enemies. That is a strange kind of gratitude. They should become really friends. And if love can become friendship, there is no guilt, no grudge, no feeling that you have been cheated, exploited. Nobody has exploited anybody; it was just the biological energy which made you blind.
I teach a different kind of love.
It does not end in friendship but begins in friendship.
It begins in silence, in awareness. It is a love which is your own creation, which is not blind.
Such a love can last forever, can go on growing deeper and deeper.
Such a love is immensely sensitive. In this kind of relationship one starts feeling the need of the other person even before the other person has spoken.
Nothing has been said just a synchronicity. If the loved one is feeling thirsty, she must start feeling thirsty herself. A transfer is happening continuously, words are not needed. Energies can relate directly without language.
Such a love needs nothing from the other.
It is grateful that the other receives something when he offers, or she offers.
It never feels in any kind of bondage, because there is none.
In such love, biological attraction may happen sometimes, may not happen for months, and finally will disappear completely. In this context, sex is no longer sexual, but only a way of being together, going as deeply as possible into each other, an effort to reach the depths of the other. It has nothing to do with biological reproduction.
And once they start understanding that whatsoever they do.... In biological attraction only their bodies can meet, then biological attraction slowly disappears. Then a different kind of meeting starts happening which is just a meeting of energies. Holding hands, sitting together looking at the stars, it is more than any biological attraction can give -- two energies melting.
To fall in love is so easy. Why is it so difficult to fall out of love? So many discussions, tears, fights, fears.... I don’t want to hurt the person I’ve been with, because it’s not that there is no feeling. I’m so confused. Can you say something?
Falling is always easy. You can fall in any ditch. Getting out is difficult. But you will have to get out. Once the love disappears the ditch becomes hell. Then there is quarreling, argument, nagging, and every kind of nastiness from both sides. Nobody wants to hurt; but because he is hurting, she is hurting, unknowingly they go on dumping their hurt feelings on the other.
In the first place, when you start falling in love, when you are still not in the ditch, that is the time to ask me, because I have a totally different kind of love affair which is called rising in love. Then there is no problem. Rising in love is beautiful, and getting out of it is very easy, because that will be falling down. Falling down is easy, keep it for the next step; for the first step, always use rising. The easier step you have done, now you have to do the difficult one.
And it will happen -- all these tears and conflicts, but nothing can bring the love back.
A simple thing has to be understood: love -- the love that you are talking about -- is not in your hands. You have fallen into it. It was not in your power not to fall, so when it comes, it takes you with it. But it is like a breeze, it comes and goes. And it is good that it comes and goes, because if it stays it becomes stale.
A little understanding is needed on both sides, that the love is no longer there. There is no need to hate each other, because nobody has destroyed it -- nobody has created it. It had come like a breeze, you enjoyed those moments; be thankful to each other and help each other to come out of the ditch. In a ditch, that is the only way. The man, to be really manly, should give his shoulders for the woman to rise up and get out of the ditch. And the man can find his own gymnastics, how to do it.
Rising in love means a learning, a changing, a maturity. Rising in love ultimately helps you to become grown-up. And two grown-up persons don’t quarrel; they try to understand, they try to solve any problem.
Anybody who rises in love never falls from it, because rising is your effort, and the love that is grown through your effort is within your hands. But falling in love is not your effort.
When you fall in love, no questions arise. You are clean, the other person is clean. But when you want to separate, the days, the nights, the years that you have lived together, loved together, experienced something which is one of the most beautiful gifts of nature -- you go on becoming entangled.
You go on giving promises to each other... and it is not that you are lying or deceiving; in those beautiful moments those promises seem to be absolutely coming from your heart. But when those moments are gone -- and they will be gone, because it has been a fall, and nobody can remain in a fallen state for eternity. Someday he has to rise again. And the moment you start separating, all those entanglements, your promises, the other’s promises, create the complexity.
Rising in love is something spiritual.
Falling in love is something biological.
Biology is blind, that’s why love is called blind. But the love I am talking about is the only insight that is easily available to everyone. Just a little effort....
Love should come out of your silence, awareness, meditativeness. It is soft, it is unbinding -- because how can love create fetters for the one who is loved? It is giving freedom to each other, more and more. As the love grows deeper, freedom becomes bigger. As the love grows deeper, you start accepting the person as he is. You stop trying to change the person.
It is one of the miseries of the world that lovers are continuously trying to change the other person. They don’t know that if the person really changes, their love will disappear, because they had not fallen in love with this changed person in the first place. They had fallen in love with a person who was not touched by their ideas -- "Change this and that."
Rising in love, you become aware that the other has his own territorial imperative, and you are not to encroach upon it.
If love becomes freedom, then there is no need to separate. The idea of separation arises because you go on seeing that you are becoming more and more a slave, and nobody likes slavery.
"You have to understand that advice is the only thing everybody gives free of charge and nobody takes." Why bother? Advice given by a person whom you have not asked cannot be very wise. The wise man never imposes his idea on anyone.
If somebody asks him, he simply gives his insight.
It is not a commandment, that they have to do it; there is no "should" in it.
I can say only one thing: you have given each other beautiful moments -- be grateful, be thankful. The parting should not be ugly when the meeting was so beautiful.
You owe it to existence that the parting should be made beautiful. Forget all your promises -- they were right when they were given, but the time has changed, you have changed. You both are standing at a crossroads, ready to move in different directions; perhaps you may never meet again. Make it as graceful as possible. And once you understand that it has to happen, gracefully or ungracefully, then it is better to make it graceful.
At least, your lover will live in your memory, you will live in the memory of the lover. In a certain way, those moments together will always enrich you. But part gracefully.
And it is not difficult when you have understood love -- which is a very difficult phenomenon. You fell without a second thought; you can understand that very easily love has disappeared. Accept the truth of it, and don’t blame each other, because nobody is responsible.
Help each other gracefully; in deep friendship, part. Lovers when they separate become enemies. That is a strange kind of gratitude. They should become really friends. And if love can become friendship, there is no guilt, no grudge, no feeling that you have been cheated, exploited. Nobody has exploited anybody; it was just the biological energy which made you blind.
I teach a different kind of love.
It does not end in friendship but begins in friendship.
It begins in silence, in awareness. It is a love which is your own creation, which is not blind.
Such a love can last forever, can go on growing deeper and deeper.
Such a love is immensely sensitive. In this kind of relationship one starts feeling the need of the other person even before the other person has spoken.
Nothing has been said just a synchronicity. If the loved one is feeling thirsty, she must start feeling thirsty herself. A transfer is happening continuously, words are not needed. Energies can relate directly without language.
Such a love needs nothing from the other.
It is grateful that the other receives something when he offers, or she offers.
It never feels in any kind of bondage, because there is none.
In such love, biological attraction may happen sometimes, may not happen for months, and finally will disappear completely. In this context, sex is no longer sexual, but only a way of being together, going as deeply as possible into each other, an effort to reach the depths of the other. It has nothing to do with biological reproduction.
And once they start understanding that whatsoever they do.... In biological attraction only their bodies can meet, then biological attraction slowly disappears. Then a different kind of meeting starts happening which is just a meeting of energies. Holding hands, sitting together looking at the stars, it is more than any biological attraction can give -- two energies melting.
My Favorates Sayaris........
( Story of a sufferrer..... U too must have gone from this phase..... Enjoy reading and remembering your days. )
:-( Koi to Itna Paresan Hai , Koi to itna Overstuffed Hai,
:-[ Koi to itni planning kar raha hai, Koi to itna badal Raha Hai
:-{ Koi to itna Dar Raha Hai, Koi to Itna Soch RAha Hai
:-/ Koi to itna Apne ko grill Karr aha hai, Koi to itna Apne ko restrict Kar raha hai
KE
Who Good Morning Call nahi le raha Hai.........
Phone Karna Bhool Jar aha Hai
Lambi discussion ki to baat hi chod do……..
Raat ko Zaldi Zaldi Neend Bula Raha Hai….
Milne ki Baat se Mukar Raha Hai
Personnal Problem sharing ki baat Chod Do
Professional problem sharing bi jise GAwara Nahi.
Baat Kuch Choti Si Nahi Hai. U r great and really perfect in limiting to your decision.
Bat Itna Kyo….. Mai Jaan Sakta Hu. ARE YAAR WE R FRIENDS Nahi Hai Kya??? Hai bye to nahi.
And the relationship we share should not be confined . U know Your priority I know my priority..Lets stick to it and not force the same on this relationship.
U tell me where do u want this relationship to move??? Should we continue in this restricted Fashion????
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Kabhi kisi ko mukammal jahaan nahin miltaa...
Kahin zameen to kahin aasmaan nahin miltaa...
Jise bhi dekhiye wo apne aapmai gum hai...
Zubaan mili hain magar humzubaan nahin miltaa...
Bujhaa saka hain bhala kaun wakt ke shole...
Ye aisi aag hain jis mein dhuaan nahin miltaa...
Tere jahaan main aisa nahin ke pyaar na ho...
Jahaa ummeed ho is ki wahaa nahin miltaa....
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Favorite no 2
Manzil na pa sake to kya hosla to hai
Saath nahi karwaan to kya rasta to hai
Uthenge kadam phir se manzil ke taraf
Koi nahi saath to kya, khud pe bharosa to hai
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Favorate No 3
Manzilein bhi uski thi, raasta bhi uska tha
Ek hum akele they, kaafila bhi uska tha
Saath saath chalne ki soch bhi uski thi, fir raasta badlne ka faisla bhi uska tha
Aaj kyon akele hain, Dil sawaal karta hai
Log to uske they, kya Khudaa bhi uska tha?
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Favorate No 3
Gam ke aansu dikha nahi sakte
Apna haq aap par jata nahi sakte
Kitne anmol hain aap meri nigahon mein
Ye baat hum aapko bata nahi sakte
Kyon?
Har kyon ka jawab nahi hota
Har shakha aap sa lajwab nahi hota
Hum kitna chahte hain aapko
Ab aapko kya batayein, uss ka koi hisaab nahi hota
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Favorite No-4
Har taraf samundar hai kinara kiyon nahin milta,
Mere Mola bata mujhko sahara kiyon nahi milta,
Mujhe is sheher main din bhar hazaaron log milte hain,
Jisse main dhoondne nikla woh piyara kiyon nahin milta,
Jisse chaha, jisse pooja, jisse socha, jisse likha,
Mere Mola mera us se sitara kiyon nahin milta.==========================================================
Favorite No-5
Tu door hai mujh se aur paas bhi hai,
Teri kami mein kahin tera ehsaas bhi hai
Tujh se dost hain laakhon,jahan mein mere
Per tu dost bhi hai,aur khaas bhi hai
Tu ne khushiyan mujhe itni di hain ke aaj
Tujhe khone ka dil mein ehsaas bhi hai
Khuda ne yon nawaaza teri dosti se mujhe
Ke mujhe khud pe gumaan hai aur naaz bhi hai********************************************************
Mujhko rula kar dil uska bhi roya to hoga
Chehra aasuon se us ne bhi dhoya to hoga
Agar na hasil kiya khuch humne pyar main
Kuch na kuch usne bhi khoya to hoga
Jab bhi tanha baitha hoga, Usne mujhko socha hoga
Meri aankhon mein aansoo hoga, Uska daaman bheega hoga.
Koi mujhko chuu kar guzra, Khusboo ka ek jhonka hoga
Raiza raiza hoon main kab se, Woh bhi pal pal bikhra hoga
Barkha rut ki baarish barsi, Koi khul kar roya hoga
Aankhein rakh kar darwaaze mein, Shayad rasta takta hoga
Uski yaad ko bhi na chhu saku, Bas apna yeh hi muqadar hoga
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Ek hi khwaab ko ankho me kayi bar sjaya maine...
Apne hi ashko se phir us khwaab ko mitaya maine...
Raah ke jis mod par badal gayi thi manzil meri...
Aaj Phir usi raah par kadam ko uthaya maine...
Jo tha masiha mera, aaj use pathar keh diya...
Na chahte huye bhi julm kamaya maine...
Ek tarf mot hai or ek tarf basar tanha...
Pyar me kya kahu ki kya paya maine..
Dhuan hi dhuan uthta raha magar aag na jal payi...
Aaj Is kadar uske khato ko jlaya maine
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Tujhse milke jana na tha tu mera itna apna hoga kabhi,
Khayalo mein baske dil mein utar aya kahin,
Jana na tha aisa hoga ik din,
Teri chahto ke asar mein dubega dil kabhi,
Khayal jiske har pal aate rahe hamey,
Wo apni baton se hi mann mein bas jayega kabhi,
Socha na tha ki tu itna raas aajayega mujhe ik din,
Pyar ki har ek saugaat jud jayegi tujhse meri,
Jana na tha kabhi ki aaj jo sath chala tu mere,
Tanha karega inhi rahon mein mujhe ik din,
Sapne sajaye na dil kabhi bhi,
aise kanch ki tarah chaknachur karega sapno ko mere ik din.......
is parayepan se acha ajnabi hi reh jate,
na milte mujhe aur na kabhi dil ko yu tum lubhate,
par udasi ka saya bhi ab dil pe chata nahi hai,
kyoki bharosa ab kisi aur pe mujhe aata nahi hai,
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at the end I will quote these line beautifully said by someone
Kisi se kehte suna " ki Zindagi rahi to phir milenge",
par dil ne ye mehsoos kiya ki
"Milte Rahenge To Zindagi Rahegi”
Aaaj ke liya bus itna hi ...... Good night Dosto for giving time to read this blog of mine......
Take Care, Saba Khar, Good Night..........................
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